Motherhood comes with such a huge responsibility. It tends to be overwhelming sometimes, and the greatest challenge for young mothers sometimes is the feeling of exclusion from all the fun things. It’s important for a young mother to find balance and joy while caring for her baby. It is possible to navigate this stage of life and still enjoy motherhood. Here are 12 essential tips for young mothers:

1. Self-Care is Crucial: Don’t neglect your own needs. Take breaks, get enough rest, and engage in activities that rejuvenate you. Take care of your skin, hair and diet. 

2. Set Realistic Expectations: Understand that being a mother is a significant responsibility. Set achievable goals and prioritize tasks to avoid feeling overwhelmed. Prioritize your tasks. You are not the almighty. 

3. Stay Connected: Maintain relationships with friends and family. Social support can be uplifting and remind you that you are not alone in this journey. Fellowship in church regularly. Don’t let the work involved in getting ready for outings deter you. The emotional gains far outweigh the work. 

4. Incorporate Baby Into Activities: Explore activities that both you and your baby can enjoy, like nature walks or gentle exercises. Apart from work, you can take your baby with you to as many places as you wish. Be proud of your baby, not embarrassed. I did this with joy for many years. I nor send 😀

5. Join Mom Groups: Connect with other moms facing similar challenges in church, at work and in your neighborhood. Sharing experiences and advice can be comforting and enriching. 

6. Celebrate Milestones: Embrace and celebrate your baby’s growth and development. Each phase is a unique and beautiful part of their life. Be careful not to compare your baby with a friend’s baby. Not everyone baby will hit their milestone on the same date. 

7. Practice Gratitude: Find moments to be present and appreciate the small joys that come with motherhood. Gratitude can bring a sense of fulfillment. Appreciate the little joys of your baby’s smile. Enjoy the baby smell 😊

8. Delegate and Accept Help: Don’t hesitate to ask for assistance when needed. Accept help from loved ones to lighten the load. A good daycare is sometimes preferable to having a live in nanny. Get cleaners if you can afford it. You don’t have to be the one to clean and scrub. 

9. Plan ‘Me Time’: Schedule regular time for yourself, whether it’s reading, exercising, or pursuing a hobby. It’s essential for your mental well-being.

10. Adapt to Change: Be open to adjusting your expectations and plans. Flexibility is key when caring for a baby. 

11. Document Your Journey: Keep a journal or take photos to capture precious moments. Reflecting on your experiences can be heartwarming. You can also start a you tube channel encouraging other Mums, or a blog. 

12. Embrace technology: The washing machine, dryer, dishwasher, pressure pot and other household appliances are there to make life easier for us. 

Remember, finding balance takes time and effort. Some days will be better than others. Prioritize self-care and seek support when needed. Your love and care for your baby are already making a difference in their life, and you can still enjoy yours too. The greatest mistake you can make is to put your life on hold;  its like holding your breathe and its not sustainable.